May 22, 2025
Planning a wedding is exciting, but let’s be honest—it can also feel overwhelming. Between choosing a venue, finding the perfect dress, and coordinating vendors, it’s easy to get lost in the details. But don’t worry! Here are 10 essential tips to help you stay organized and stress-free while planning your big day.
Before anything else, determine your budget. Prioritize what matters most—venue, catering, dress, entertainment—and allocate your funds accordingly. A clear budget helps avoid overspending and unnecessary stress later.
Break your planning into manageable steps. Use a checklist with deadlines to keep track of what needs to be done each month. This will help you stay on schedule and prevent last-minute scrambling.
Venues book up quickly, especially during peak wedding seasons. Once you have a date in mind, book your dream venue as soon as possible to ensure availability.
*See below for my recommended venues in CNY!
Your guest list impacts your budget, venue size, and catering costs. Keep it meaningful by inviting close friends and family. A smaller list means a more intimate and stress-free event.
This should be at the top of your priority list after you set the date. Your officiant plays a key role in your ceremony, so book someone who aligns with your vision. A professional officiant can help personalize your vows and make your ceremony unforgettable.
📸 Natalie Santacesaria Javier | JV Films
You don’t have to do everything alone! Assign tasks to your bridal party, family, or hire a wedding planner. Let them handle small details while you focus on enjoying the experience.
From photographers to florists, research vendors thoroughly. Read reviews, check portfolios, and ask for recommendations to ensure you’re hiring trustworthy professionals.
Here are some vendors that I absolutely love!
And if you don't want to worry about outsourcing for cake, flowers, DJ, bar service, decor...really anything:
They house FOUR different venues that all have their own ceremony sites and are all-inclusive of everything except the photographer/videographer and the officiant!
My husband and I were married at The Apple Orchard Lodge and it was everything we wanted it to be!
Weather changes, delays, and other surprises can happen. Have a backup plan in place, especially if you're planning an outdoor wedding.
Amidst all the planning, don’t forget to take care of yourself. Schedule self-care days, date nights with your fiancé, and moments to just breathe.
At the end of the day, your wedding is about celebrating love. Don’t stress over small details—focus on the joy of marrying the love of your life!
Planning a wedding should be fun and memorable, not overwhelming! By staying organized and focusing on what truly matters, you’ll create a magical day that you and your guests will cherish forever. 💕
📸 Life's Moments Photography